the thing that i fucking hate most is when someone concur with me on something previously , and then the very next moment when tested on the spot where his/her opinion lies, he/she turns around and backstabs you, leaving you to feel like the big idiot.

i term this WEAK. and no principles. fucking deserve no respect from me.
so spare me the nonsense about asking respect from me.

and its the background+culture lah. my mum 不是乱盖的 hardworking okie. she is very 自动 and gets down to housework chores ever so ready and fast. and she spends her time on socializing, cleaning up the house etc and definitely NOT on tv. even if i offer my help, she ll still get to chores fast cos she cant stand messiness and a big fan of cleanliness.
its okie when you are not the above, you are just normal like me. but pls dun anyhow term someone as hardworking. i dun even really think my mum is hardworking and its freaking unfair to her when i saw others not as hardworking claiming/be claimed as hardworking. *pui*

i've always try to treat people with basic respect even though many to me really dont deserve any. but pls dun take that for granted. respect by right needs to be earned.
not cos you are more senior, a guy, an ang moh or anything.

again its the culture lah. when most people in a family is very self-opinionated and needs repeated reminders to see from people perspective and follow instructions, then really, there's nothing much you can expect from them. in the end, YES THEY WILL DO WHAT YOU WANT. but do they really see where you coming from? NO, absolutely FUCKING no. in THEIR opinion, they are just doing you this huge favor by doing what you REPEATED remind them to. but again and again, they slipped and forget stuff and do they CARE? absolutely FUCKING no again. cos in THEIR opinion, its not wrong to do what they think right? DESPITE THE FACT that they gave you their words they will do things your way by pretending to concur with you. which brings me to the 1st point. they pretend only lah.

wah lau. all kind of people exists in the world.
thats all i can say.