today, bb and i celebrated our 6 years anniversary as husband and wife!
gosh, i can only say time flies and even though the kids make such celebrations only possible during the day, im very glad to have them still.
and of cos, the man who makes all this possible. :)
we took the afternoon off to spend some time on our own.
a very much welcomed rarity without the kids around. :P
the afternoon programme was very very simple and but it did brought us back to dating days. :)
hubbi came picked my up at 12+ from my office and we made our way to valentino @ turf city.
yes, i've fell in love with this gem of a restaurant since i tried their food for yan's hen party.
and this time round, i brought the husband to try the food here!
as usual, the spoilsport man was ranting is the place really worth the distance and why cant we just settle for a restaurant at MBS since its so near my workplace.
but im glad he came along in the end.
since he originally wanted cut at MBS, i ordered him the tenderloin here to satisfy his craving.
for myself, i ordered the squid ink spaghetti with crab meat.
and as i expected, ah long was suitably impressed with the food here as well as the decor/ambience of the place. :)
me & my super yummeh squid ink spaghetti
we left for a movie in town after lunch.
since i've already caught "to rome with love" (yes, i managed to catch some shows on the big screen recently again! :)), we settled for "ruby sparks".
a very very original and different movie.
i still cant decide if its weirdly good or so good its weird. ha.
though clearly, the show says you have to let the other half to just be him/herself.
if not, a relationship just cannot work.
when we enter a relationship/marriage, you should have a good understanding of your partner character/traits etc.
the fact that you choose to start a new phase of life with him/her means you have accepted him/her, no?
so why the need to change them after?
easier said than done.
most people, myself included, prefer to change others then to change for others.
food for thought anyway.
hubbi and i have been together for > a decade now and married for 6 years.
and we are still struggling to find a balancing point whereby we can stay sane and take on the multiple roles required from us in life.
for me the equation is simple - if i dont feel the need to kick him at sight, we are doing alright. :P
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